We had a good weekend until…
You told yourself again that you would behave well this weekend.
You came home with flowers, opened a bottle of wine, and were ready for the fun to begin.
Your spouse came home and criticized you again without noticing or acknowledging any of it. Like an arrow to your heart, you felt hurt and under-appreciated.
A couple of hours later, you are unsure why you are fighting, but the distance feels cold and isolating. You are not upset anymore, but how do you swim back to friendliness and fun?
Romance seems so far away.
A few years back, your relationship was essential to your life.
You lived a simple life and made time for romantic gateways and fun outings. You were committed to keeping your romance going. You were not going to become a statistic.
Then came dogs, kids, and careers. You are not sure what happened, but romance is as far from your daily life as you are from feeling contentment in your relationship.
Couples therapy works.
In our sessions, I will ask you to tell me who you are, what is important to you, what is missing in your relationship, etc.
By asking you targeted questions, I will help you remember why you fell in love in the first place, and together, we will figure out how to get back to what is most important to both of you.
Some problems are small and easily fixed.
Others hit you in the core of your being and make you feel stuck, unable to forgive and move forward.
Whatever the problem, we will unpack it, resolve it, and find a middle ground from which to grow together.
You will gain confidence in yourself and each other and use the tools you learned in therapy to nurture your relationship for years.
It’s time to move forward together.
Please schedule a free consultation. We will discuss your unique situation and ensure we are a good match before starting the journey of healing and reconnecting.